Sex is important! Through the act we perpetuate the species, our own genetic material, and of course, we have fun. Sex is one of the fundamental impulses of the human mind; Ask any advertiser or filmmaker whether or not sex sells. Sex is what I like to call an exchange of sensual energy. There are different uses for this energy just as there are different inclinations and preferences regarding this energy. Using the destiny number, also called the life path, we can learn to better channel this energy to satisfy our sexual needs. The destiny number is your date of birth reduced to a single digit. For example, if you were January 1, 1980, you would proceed: 1+1+1+9+8+0 = 20 and 2 + 0 = 2.
NOTE: Sexual expression is often considered taboo and even those who are ’emancipated’ may have a range of repressions. In order to better illustrate the point we will focus on the extremes. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself experiencing a reaction in one form or another and keep an open mind, use these suggestions to embody your vibration sexually..
1 Destination: You can be determined to find your lover. Taken to the extreme, you can see love as a contest and your partners as conquests. Sometimes you focus too much on your own satisfaction and are a little too domineering, even though your peers find you exciting and willing to experiment. sexual activities: You can channel your energy 1 be on top. Be sure to experience the other end of the spectrum 1 by allowing your partner to roam. Ladies, try red lingerie for an exciting night out.
2 Destination: You are an affectionate lover who aims to please in any way you can. You like to kiss, hug and cuddle. In fact, these things are necessary because you need to feel protected and nurtured. At the extreme, you can try to plan things in advance and schedule love. You can be a bit submissive and follow your partner’s energy very well. sexual activities: Show your partner your willingness to please by showing off your body through dancing and self-pleasure for their eyes only. On the other hand, reject the advances of your lovers from time to time and learn to enjoy the power of teasing. Women should consider shades of orange in their underwear and makeup.
3 Destination: You are an exciting and playful lover with a lot of confidence. This gives you the chance to make your partner feel comfortable with your playful and joyful attitude towards sex. You like different poses and you probably have a copy of the Kama Sutra on your shelf. You can be so uninhibited that you can make your lover blush! sexual activitiesActivities that allow for sensual exploration of other body parts are ideal, such as breast sex and foot or foot sex. Women can spice things up with shades of yellow.
4 Destination: Fours can struggle with emotions, especially understanding their partner’s passions. You are slow and steady and can delay love to build up steam. Relationships are very important and you are extremely loyal and faithful. Your sex life can stagnate if you take an intellectual approach and rely only on tried and true methods to get turned on. sexual activities: Turn off the lights and crawl under the covers with your lover. Slow, smooth and long. On the other side of the coin, let loose every now and then. Try making love outdoors. Ladies, green is the color to bring out your sensual side to the fullest.
5 Destination: The adventurer! You enjoy variety and excitement. Spontaneity is a turn on, as are new places, new positions and new people! You are attractive to the opposite sex and need mental and physical stimulation. You like the highs and lows of passion and stimulation. sexual activities: You may want to eat from a wider menu that includes oral and anal fun, role-playing, and other “non-standard” activities like spanking. Women should wear blue underwear and makeup.
6 Destination: Sixes are quite devoted and need to maintain balance and harmony in a relationship. When you find that special someone giving in to carnal desires is a joy. Music, candles and lighting help create this romantic air. Long and very long foreplay sessions that include lots of kissing are up your alley. sexual activities: Kisses and licks all over your body, as well as massages and digital scans will do you good. Women should wear indigo, dark blue and black.
7 Destination: Dreamy and romantic, you secretly desire a spiritual connection with your lover. You can be somewhat spacey and detached and your analytical nature can produce an almost clinical approach to sex. However, you can achieve levels of intimacy with your lover that are beyond conscious comprehension. sexual activities: Explore things like tantra and techniques that allow for a more meditative sexual experience. Ditch that “clinical” disposition and use some dirty words! Women, violets and purples will bring out your inner beast.
8 Destination: Okay, you’re a freak. Or cold Up or down you are almost entirely active or passive. You might be a little too wrapped up in sexual power politics and wouldn’t mind having complete control over your partner. Seduce or be seduced. This attitude can alienate others, but when you make a commitment you commit completely. sexual activities: Games that allow you to safely explore power relations, such as Bondage and Discipline or Role Playing. Learn to enjoy copious and overly romantic displays. Ladies, the color pink will help balance your sex drives.
9 Destination: You can be so empathetic that you become a doormat. But you like to help your lover and often put your own needs on the back burner. But when they finally pile up, watch out! Your passion can be volcanic, and your lover may unexpectedly find that your calm nature has become quite demanding. And exciting sexual activities: Anything that allows for mutual selfless pleasure such as sixty-nine or mutual masturbation. Women should try brown, bronze and chocolate colors in makeup and lingerie.
Copyright Jakob Steele 2007